It's official...I'm in love! I can say it without any reservation!!! It's not that I was looking for it, but that's when it usually happens. This man knew me before I entered into the industry of hot and steamy sex topics, yet, it doesn't matter to him because he knows that he has my heart as well as my mind. Life can be strange at times and our situation is nothing less than that. However, through the distance, absence of mind and body, his spirit never left me and after some intense conversations it was revealed that he felt the same on his end. This is a man that has understood my moods, thoughts and emotions without me having to say a word primarily because he is observant of all of his surroundings, it was from him that I learned how to be mindful of everything around me. I thank him for that! I want to talk about the difference between someone having your heart, which can be a good thing and for the person that is awesome enough to have your mind, which is an extremely powerful thing. Please know that I make a valid effort to write for you as often as I can and believe it or not, I sometimes have a challenge when picking a topic to discuss unless I'm asked a question by someone or I've had the opportunity to indulge in my favorite activity of people watching. Again, I use everyone I come across as a "case study". You often hear people say when they reach a cross-road in their relationship "Should I listen to my heart or head?" Well, I honestly believe in life the majority of the time an individual should listen to their heart, but again this is just my opinion.
So they have your heart?!? This again is a wonderful and beautiful thing! Life is full of bubblegum, bubbles and sunshine for you. I'm happy that you've had the opportunity to experience this. Your baby can do no wrong (in the beginning) but as time evolves human nature will sometimes force you to second guess your decisions, actions, etc. When someone has your heart there is always the slim chance that you may have left a window cracked for another opportunity or as I like to call it, the possibility of a "back pocket" (someone on the side). This rule doesn't apply to everyone, just several of the experiences I or my "case studies" have come across.
When someone has your mind....baby.....you're completely gone!!! No force, time, distance, babymommas, babydaddys, family, friends or enemies will have the power to make you even think about a "back pocket"! It would never cross your mind. It can be a situation where you don't speak to your mind-taker in 30 years, but through all those 30 years, your thoughts are always with them. Their birthday approaches and you silently wish them a happy celebration. When someone has your mind, they have surpassed the highest degree of stealing your heart, there is no way to escape, but then again if your mind is gone then you wouldn't want to escape in the first place.
I am a strong advocate for matrimonial bliss. My philosophy is that I will marry only once in this life. I believe marriage to be a lifelong commitment once the vows are all said and done (til death do us part). Many opportunities have been presented to me but they didn't have my mind!!!In the world of marriage I would not be content or completely happy if I married the person that simply had my heart. I know how that shit goes!!! I would more than likely be heading to divorce court once we reached the 7 year itch. For the individual that has my mind, the question or concern of divorce would never enter into the equation. That's when someone truly has you for life!
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Sunday, May 8, 2011
"Nuff"
Nuff: An individuals personal tolerance level of bullshit!!!
I was 30 when a good friend of mine explained in detail along with examples of what the word "Nuff" meant. It's obviously a derivative of "Enough", yet it doesn't mean the same thing. If you refer back to the "Porcelain Doll Syndrome" blog, this may help you to become more patient with your friends actions or re-actions. Let's talk:
So you have a friend (doesn't matter if they are male or female) and they are in a one-sided relationship. Everyone but the person that is involved knows that the other un-supportive half is out in the streets doing whoever knows what...Including your friend. You may have seen this person out in society showing public displays of affection (PDA) with another individual and you may have even gone the extra mile to snap a quick photo for proof for your unsuspecting friend to see the truth. Yet, your disappointment returns when your friend finds several ways of defending their unfaithful mate (oh, that's his cousin, or oh that's her brother). I know that pisses you the fuck off and you can't understand why your friend has become so dumbfounded recently. This is a person that you may have at one point in your life thought to be a strong, wise and don't take bullshit from anyone type of individual. However, in their current situation they somehow became...well....dumb! That's how you would define it. The key sentence is "That's how YOU would define it." We have all said at least one time in our lives that "I've had enough". Ask yourself, when you said it, did you say it from your mouth or did you say it from your heart? I can't tell you how many times I've told myself and my girlfriends that I've had enough, my mouth said it proud and strong, but my heart didn't.
"Nuff" is Final!!! This means you have tried every avenue to resolve what issues you may have had with your mate, your work life, and other topics encountered with your personal life. It's when you basically say "fuck it!" Now understand, everyone's "Nuff" level is different than the next persons. That's why you allow yourself to get so bent out of shape when your friend doesn't do what YOU expect them to do. Let's use this for an example: You're out to dinner with a friend, the same meal is served. You proceed to sprinkle, salt, pepper, oregano or whatever spice that will make your meal more enjoyable and your friend decides against adding any type of spice or seasoning. You say to your friend "The food tastes bland." and your friend is happy with the way the food was placed in front of them by the waiter. Everyone is different. Please do not become discouraged by the actions or compulsive-like behavior that they are displaying. It may take a few months, a year, or in some cases it may take decades. Keep in mind once a person reaches their "Nuff", there will be nothing anyone can say or do to change their decision.
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I was 30 when a good friend of mine explained in detail along with examples of what the word "Nuff" meant. It's obviously a derivative of "Enough", yet it doesn't mean the same thing. If you refer back to the "Porcelain Doll Syndrome" blog, this may help you to become more patient with your friends actions or re-actions. Let's talk:
So you have a friend (doesn't matter if they are male or female) and they are in a one-sided relationship. Everyone but the person that is involved knows that the other un-supportive half is out in the streets doing whoever knows what...Including your friend. You may have seen this person out in society showing public displays of affection (PDA) with another individual and you may have even gone the extra mile to snap a quick photo for proof for your unsuspecting friend to see the truth. Yet, your disappointment returns when your friend finds several ways of defending their unfaithful mate (oh, that's his cousin, or oh that's her brother). I know that pisses you the fuck off and you can't understand why your friend has become so dumbfounded recently. This is a person that you may have at one point in your life thought to be a strong, wise and don't take bullshit from anyone type of individual. However, in their current situation they somehow became...well....dumb! That's how you would define it. The key sentence is "That's how YOU would define it." We have all said at least one time in our lives that "I've had enough". Ask yourself, when you said it, did you say it from your mouth or did you say it from your heart? I can't tell you how many times I've told myself and my girlfriends that I've had enough, my mouth said it proud and strong, but my heart didn't.
"Nuff" is Final!!! This means you have tried every avenue to resolve what issues you may have had with your mate, your work life, and other topics encountered with your personal life. It's when you basically say "fuck it!" Now understand, everyone's "Nuff" level is different than the next persons. That's why you allow yourself to get so bent out of shape when your friend doesn't do what YOU expect them to do. Let's use this for an example: You're out to dinner with a friend, the same meal is served. You proceed to sprinkle, salt, pepper, oregano or whatever spice that will make your meal more enjoyable and your friend decides against adding any type of spice or seasoning. You say to your friend "The food tastes bland." and your friend is happy with the way the food was placed in front of them by the waiter. Everyone is different. Please do not become discouraged by the actions or compulsive-like behavior that they are displaying. It may take a few months, a year, or in some cases it may take decades. Keep in mind once a person reaches their "Nuff", there will be nothing anyone can say or do to change their decision.
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It's Your Day!!!
The PSSST...Staff would like to wish all of the Mother's, the wish they were Mother's, the Mother's that are doing it by themselves, the Dad's that have stepped up to the role of having to be both Mother and Father and to the Mother's away from their families temporarily. HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!
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Saturday, May 7, 2011
"3"
Yes, the title is odd. It defines the number of times that I felt I could be happily involved in a long-distance relationship. Relationships are tough to begin with, so it takes an extra effort if you've made the decision to love from afar. I recall it as if it were yesterday when he advised me he was moving to Indianapolis. My heart was broken, but his cocky ass honestly didn't give a damn. He carried the "get in, where you fit in" attitude. I can only assume as I reflect back on those many years ago that he was excited about a new job opportunity. We tried the back and forth meet and greet sessions, but it became obvious that our relationship was strained. If my memory serves correctly, we were done in about 6 months or less.
Moving to Philadelphia seemed like the right thing to do at the time. We were so "in love" if that's what you want to call it. We worked together back in my days with Corporate America and began our telephone romance quickly. Weekend visits on both ends followed and it became heartbreaking each time we had to say our "good-byes". He proposed to me a year later and I accepted. (No, I've never been married, but I've lost count on how many proposals I've encountered. If it ain't right, it just ain't right! Listen to your heart!!!). I made the unfortunate mistake of moving in with him and that's when all the spontaneous slow dances in the supermarket ceased, and the resentment began. What a "hell" I found myself in. I'm always myself 100% of the time and it behooves me when other individuals are not. Do we still speak? Yes, when need be (only)!!!
"Third and final time" I said to myself. This is bullshit!!!Keep in mind what I said at the top of the post...It takes the "EXTRA" effort if you plan on being in a long distance romance. Also keep in mind, what you put into a relationship, is what you will get out of it! We dated for a year and the proposal came. I was delighted (again) as we began planning for our wedding, we were also working on some business acquisitions, which made things a bit bumpy for us. However, it doesn't take but a few minutes to make communication possible. Toni Braxton said it best "Seven Whole Days, not a word from you". Well in my case it was eight. On day 8 Mistah called and acted as if everything was still normal between us and advised me that we would be married in 6 days. Ummm, noooo, it doesn't quite work that way with me. Needless to say, I would rather lose a love than love a loser!
Lessons learned.....or did I really learn? There is a twist to this story called "3". Yet we have to allow time to evolve it. I know you despise my "cliff hangers" but I can't write what isn't there yet. Stay Tuned.
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Moving to Philadelphia seemed like the right thing to do at the time. We were so "in love" if that's what you want to call it. We worked together back in my days with Corporate America and began our telephone romance quickly. Weekend visits on both ends followed and it became heartbreaking each time we had to say our "good-byes". He proposed to me a year later and I accepted. (No, I've never been married, but I've lost count on how many proposals I've encountered. If it ain't right, it just ain't right! Listen to your heart!!!). I made the unfortunate mistake of moving in with him and that's when all the spontaneous slow dances in the supermarket ceased, and the resentment began. What a "hell" I found myself in. I'm always myself 100% of the time and it behooves me when other individuals are not. Do we still speak? Yes, when need be (only)!!!
"Third and final time" I said to myself. This is bullshit!!!Keep in mind what I said at the top of the post...It takes the "EXTRA" effort if you plan on being in a long distance romance. Also keep in mind, what you put into a relationship, is what you will get out of it! We dated for a year and the proposal came. I was delighted (again) as we began planning for our wedding, we were also working on some business acquisitions, which made things a bit bumpy for us. However, it doesn't take but a few minutes to make communication possible. Toni Braxton said it best "Seven Whole Days, not a word from you". Well in my case it was eight. On day 8 Mistah called and acted as if everything was still normal between us and advised me that we would be married in 6 days. Ummm, noooo, it doesn't quite work that way with me. Needless to say, I would rather lose a love than love a loser!
Lessons learned.....or did I really learn? There is a twist to this story called "3". Yet we have to allow time to evolve it. I know you despise my "cliff hangers" but I can't write what isn't there yet. Stay Tuned.
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Thursday, May 5, 2011
Changing Seasons
As I was walking to my car this afternoon, I took a few moments to "smell the roses." Fresh cut grass, Cherry blossoms, etc. The tulips are finally starting to bloom and they are simply beautiful. Spring is also the time of year when I lose the majority of my sleep. It's not that I have insomnia, yet it's because nature from all different aspects are changing. This is the time of the year where I generally turn my blackberry off no later than 11pm. Now for those of you reading and have the luxury of having my number at your convenience, allow me to apologize in advance. I love all of you but have learned over the years that I am not equipped to solve everyone's problem each and every time. If you pay attention (finally) then you may learn something. Not only are things outdoors changing, but I can almost guarantee if you're not married, then your relationship with Mr. or Ms. Wonderful is changing as well and has been for the last 4 or more weeks!
When I'm in a new relationship, I generally will give the individual I'm dating 90 days, then I decide if I want to continue on with dating the person. The dating game has really changed over the years. It's hard being a single woman or man these days. I was once told by an elderly gentleman approximately four years ago that he felt sorry for me. Wow! Really! He went on to say that "our" generation does not "court" like they did in his day, and he was right. Something as simple as going out for an ice-cream, going to a play and one of my favorites, a boxing event can start the pathway to a possibly longer than 90 days romance. I don't have time for any bullshit, therefore I analyze everything. From the way that he speaks, walks, eats, dresses, conducts business, handles stressful situations, sticks it in (does he shove it in, or does he gently glide it in) Shit! I'm off-track again. I was not heading in this direction but since I brought it up, just remember the simple things in life.
Ok, let's get back to what has been the latest buzzing topic for me over the past 5 weeks. Pain is pain! Happiness is Happiness! The pain portion usually happens in the months of April and May. The Happiness portion generally begins in mid to late September and has run its full course no later than the end of October. Here's how it goes: We will start for the typical scenario for the beginning of fall "happiness" session. Do you find it interesting that you have more than enough of your pick from the fruits of men or women? The majority of people are single this time of the year and are in the process of finding their perfect "snuggle" bunny for those cold winter months. No one likes to cuddle alone, I definitely don't. This is when the flood gates of love open. Everything is oh so wonderful with your new-found mate, or your "holla back" (break up, get back together, break up, get back together)mate. It's like the greatest thing in the world. Your family, friends and especially co-workers tell you they've never seen this type of glow on your face and they are happy for you genuinely. The "happiness" will generally last for a period of 7 or less months unless both partners are fully into one another. If it's a pre-planned temporary relationship on one individuals end, time will definitely show you the true colors that are surely to come in the month of April or May. This is the break-up, end the relationship season people. Why? Because E.A.T (Egos, ass and titties) season is quickly approaching. If you've been bogged down with snow and cold weather, the time has now arrived for you to wear a little less clothing, enjoy outdoor activities and have a full smorgasbord of fine ass men or women at your disposal. I can recall several years ago when E.A.T. was definitely at my disposal. I was dating 4 men at the same time. The keyword here is "dating". I was not in a serious relationship with either of the men that I was dating and they were fully aware that we were in each others company to enjoy the wonderful benefits that summer had to bring. I never allowed either gentleman to come to my home. We all know I have had my fair share of stalkers. We would generally meet at a neutral place and you better believe I checked out their license plate number; make and model of vehicle and any other information I was able to discreetly gather and forwarded their information to my friend that was waiting to receive the profile.
**Sidenote** This applies to both sexes. We all need that ONE friend, that we never talk about to the people we are dating. Never mention their name to your date. This is important just in case you find yourself in an unfortunate stalking situation!!! I had to learn the hard way, but damn it, I learned!
Remember my 90 day rule? Well after a few dates here and there, the 90 days in most cases have been reached and odd enough, we find ourselves in mid September or October. There is a very strong possibility all of them have been dismissed by this time. This is also a crucial point where the decision is made to either cuddle with my electric blanket or pick a quality and qualified individual to play "footsies" with. Well, I'm not ashamed to say for the past couple of years, I've been snugged up with my electric blanket. It goes back to what that elderly gentleman said to me those 4 years ago. I will take quality over quantity any day!
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When I'm in a new relationship, I generally will give the individual I'm dating 90 days, then I decide if I want to continue on with dating the person. The dating game has really changed over the years. It's hard being a single woman or man these days. I was once told by an elderly gentleman approximately four years ago that he felt sorry for me. Wow! Really! He went on to say that "our" generation does not "court" like they did in his day, and he was right. Something as simple as going out for an ice-cream, going to a play and one of my favorites, a boxing event can start the pathway to a possibly longer than 90 days romance. I don't have time for any bullshit, therefore I analyze everything. From the way that he speaks, walks, eats, dresses, conducts business, handles stressful situations, sticks it in (does he shove it in, or does he gently glide it in) Shit! I'm off-track again. I was not heading in this direction but since I brought it up, just remember the simple things in life.
Ok, let's get back to what has been the latest buzzing topic for me over the past 5 weeks. Pain is pain! Happiness is Happiness! The pain portion usually happens in the months of April and May. The Happiness portion generally begins in mid to late September and has run its full course no later than the end of October. Here's how it goes: We will start for the typical scenario for the beginning of fall "happiness" session. Do you find it interesting that you have more than enough of your pick from the fruits of men or women? The majority of people are single this time of the year and are in the process of finding their perfect "snuggle" bunny for those cold winter months. No one likes to cuddle alone, I definitely don't. This is when the flood gates of love open. Everything is oh so wonderful with your new-found mate, or your "holla back" (break up, get back together, break up, get back together)mate. It's like the greatest thing in the world. Your family, friends and especially co-workers tell you they've never seen this type of glow on your face and they are happy for you genuinely. The "happiness" will generally last for a period of 7 or less months unless both partners are fully into one another. If it's a pre-planned temporary relationship on one individuals end, time will definitely show you the true colors that are surely to come in the month of April or May. This is the break-up, end the relationship season people. Why? Because E.A.T (Egos, ass and titties) season is quickly approaching. If you've been bogged down with snow and cold weather, the time has now arrived for you to wear a little less clothing, enjoy outdoor activities and have a full smorgasbord of fine ass men or women at your disposal. I can recall several years ago when E.A.T. was definitely at my disposal. I was dating 4 men at the same time. The keyword here is "dating". I was not in a serious relationship with either of the men that I was dating and they were fully aware that we were in each others company to enjoy the wonderful benefits that summer had to bring. I never allowed either gentleman to come to my home. We all know I have had my fair share of stalkers. We would generally meet at a neutral place and you better believe I checked out their license plate number; make and model of vehicle and any other information I was able to discreetly gather and forwarded their information to my friend that was waiting to receive the profile.
**Sidenote** This applies to both sexes. We all need that ONE friend, that we never talk about to the people we are dating. Never mention their name to your date. This is important just in case you find yourself in an unfortunate stalking situation!!! I had to learn the hard way, but damn it, I learned!
Remember my 90 day rule? Well after a few dates here and there, the 90 days in most cases have been reached and odd enough, we find ourselves in mid September or October. There is a very strong possibility all of them have been dismissed by this time. This is also a crucial point where the decision is made to either cuddle with my electric blanket or pick a quality and qualified individual to play "footsies" with. Well, I'm not ashamed to say for the past couple of years, I've been snugged up with my electric blanket. It goes back to what that elderly gentleman said to me those 4 years ago. I will take quality over quantity any day!
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Monday, May 2, 2011
***CORRECTION****
***READ IMMEDIATELY***
I made a boo boo. I received a call from one of my friends that advised me my month cycle counter was off. I re-read the last paragraph and she was correct. I can only hope you guys haven't had the chance to venture off and look for the person you are compatible with (yet). This is how it really goes and I promise I will read thoroughly before I post this for you to ensure that all is correct.
The rule for your compatible partner is six months..not four months as I advised you yesterday...Six months!!!! If you were born in June then you are more than likely compatible with someone that was born in December. If you were born in March, you will be compatible with someone that was born in September, etc.
Please forgive my mishap.
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I made a boo boo. I received a call from one of my friends that advised me my month cycle counter was off. I re-read the last paragraph and she was correct. I can only hope you guys haven't had the chance to venture off and look for the person you are compatible with (yet). This is how it really goes and I promise I will read thoroughly before I post this for you to ensure that all is correct.
The rule for your compatible partner is six months..not four months as I advised you yesterday...Six months!!!! If you were born in June then you are more than likely compatible with someone that was born in December. If you were born in March, you will be compatible with someone that was born in September, etc.
Please forgive my mishap.
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Sunday, May 1, 2011
Zodiacs
I will be the first to admit it. Tyrese looks good as fuck! Fine as frog's hair if you will. He's the type of man that would be able to tame my wild ass. Bulging muscles, bald head and simply sexy. Yet, there is a big problem that would quickly stop me from embarking on him. He's a Capricorn and I stay the fuck away from Capricorn's! Before we begin with the zodiacs, please understand, these are MY experiences and opinions and yours may be different from mine. I had the experience of dating two Capricorns. My first was in my mid twenties and the last and final one was also in my mid twenties. Both of these mothafucka's (mother fuckers) had some serious issues. Again, my opinion. One I ran out of town and well the other....I left town to get the fuck away from his crazy ass. It was the beginning of the caller-ID technology and I found a "hidden" caller ID under my own bed that Capricorn #1 left secretly. I feel if you don't trust someone then maybe you should find someone else to date. I am so thankful for my relationship with his Mom (all Mom's tend to like me). She was the helping force to help me ship his ass to Florida. Now Capricorn #2, I've talked about in previous blogs, I will eventually tell you the entire story of how my ass got hooked up with the Italians in the first damn place, but I'm not quite ready for that story just yet. Let's just say I got tired of walking into my home (fully equipped alarm system and monitoring)only to find out that my furniture had been re-arranged (again). That was his way of letting me know he could always get to me. So, I got the fuck out of dodge. I should have known by the first experience not to date another Capricorn, but my thought was that one experience shouldn't make it bad for everyone else.
When my friends call and tell me they have met someone new and want to share their happiness with me, they know before they call to make sure they know his or her zodiac sign and I will tell them the outcome of their relationship. Now this analogy isn't based upon my personal experience but it's based upon both zodiac signs. I'm an Aries and I know who I can deal with and who can deal with me. I once dated a guy that was born in December, yet he was a Sagitarius. He was under the impression that I wanted to date a Capricorn, so he wasn't totally true.....let's just say he withheld information from me. I was relieved to find that he wasn't a Capricorn.
Aquarius: My best male friend is an Aquarian, he's an outgoing, life of the party type of fella. I love him with all my heart and I tell him my most intimate secrets. Very Romantic and attentive individual and has a sensitive side that I hate to see coming. Especially when he's ended a relationship with someone. That particular conversation goes on for weeks, until he finds a replacement. Now would I ever date an Aquarian? Nope, not anymore. No my best male friend and I didn't date, yet I dated an Aquarian that wasn't totally honest and he made the mistake of thinking that I was stuck on stupid as well as glued to dumb. He will call again one day because his personality will force him too.
Pisces: Passionate Pisces....well...damn....he could have had me wrapped around his finger if Capricorn #1 wasn't in the way. He was passionate, reserved, defined manhood (in my eyes) yet sometimes secretive. Pisces are sensitive individuals and tend to shy away from any possibility of heartbreak. They are also considered by some to have psychic abilities. Awesome sex and they carry their damn pheromones around with them daily. Most Pisces will experience at least 3 or more stalkers in their lifetime. Their personalities are extremely magnetic. If you're a Pisces reading this, you know what I'm talking about.
I never dated an Aries, but if the male is anything like me, consider yourself very fortunate to have this person in your corner.
Taurus: Will somebody please tell me what the fuck I was thinking when I embarked on a Taurus man? Stubborn as fuck, always mad, brazen attempts at controlling. I will tell you this Dallas and Mr. Taurus Man will "never" connect again. I mean that damn it!
I haven't dated a Gemini, Cancer, or Leo, sorry I can't help you there personally.
Libra: Sweet Libra will give you the world and never ask for anything in return. My Libra experience was a great one. We are still friends til this day. The problems we encountered is that he was trying to take care of the entire world, which left him exhausted and drained. He's actually "The Hustler" that I spoke of in "Pimps, Players and Hustler's blog".
Virgo: Daddy if you're reading this, I asked you not to read my blogs anymore, Tequila or not...sign off now please and thank you. I love you dearly!
My Daddy's a Virgo...my real Dad, you know the 1/2 that helped produce me to life. Also, my first love is a Virgo...I don't think I want to talk about it to be honest for fear of incriminating myself with both individuals. I bet your ass couldn't wait to read this one..hahaha...I will hold my tongue on this one. I will say they are excellent cooks, intuitive, intelligent, confident and sensitive. Hey, I still need that cheese bisquit recipe.
If you want to know quickly if you are compatible with your mate, here is a rule that I give all of my friends and associates. Take the month you were born and count four months ahead..example if you were born in June, then four months after June will land you in the month of October. If you were born in January, you will more than likely be compatible with someone that is born in the month of May.
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When my friends call and tell me they have met someone new and want to share their happiness with me, they know before they call to make sure they know his or her zodiac sign and I will tell them the outcome of their relationship. Now this analogy isn't based upon my personal experience but it's based upon both zodiac signs. I'm an Aries and I know who I can deal with and who can deal with me. I once dated a guy that was born in December, yet he was a Sagitarius. He was under the impression that I wanted to date a Capricorn, so he wasn't totally true.....let's just say he withheld information from me. I was relieved to find that he wasn't a Capricorn.
Aquarius: My best male friend is an Aquarian, he's an outgoing, life of the party type of fella. I love him with all my heart and I tell him my most intimate secrets. Very Romantic and attentive individual and has a sensitive side that I hate to see coming. Especially when he's ended a relationship with someone. That particular conversation goes on for weeks, until he finds a replacement. Now would I ever date an Aquarian? Nope, not anymore. No my best male friend and I didn't date, yet I dated an Aquarian that wasn't totally honest and he made the mistake of thinking that I was stuck on stupid as well as glued to dumb. He will call again one day because his personality will force him too.
Pisces: Passionate Pisces....well...damn....he could have had me wrapped around his finger if Capricorn #1 wasn't in the way. He was passionate, reserved, defined manhood (in my eyes) yet sometimes secretive. Pisces are sensitive individuals and tend to shy away from any possibility of heartbreak. They are also considered by some to have psychic abilities. Awesome sex and they carry their damn pheromones around with them daily. Most Pisces will experience at least 3 or more stalkers in their lifetime. Their personalities are extremely magnetic. If you're a Pisces reading this, you know what I'm talking about.
I never dated an Aries, but if the male is anything like me, consider yourself very fortunate to have this person in your corner.
Taurus: Will somebody please tell me what the fuck I was thinking when I embarked on a Taurus man? Stubborn as fuck, always mad, brazen attempts at controlling. I will tell you this Dallas and Mr. Taurus Man will "never" connect again. I mean that damn it!
I haven't dated a Gemini, Cancer, or Leo, sorry I can't help you there personally.
Libra: Sweet Libra will give you the world and never ask for anything in return. My Libra experience was a great one. We are still friends til this day. The problems we encountered is that he was trying to take care of the entire world, which left him exhausted and drained. He's actually "The Hustler" that I spoke of in "Pimps, Players and Hustler's blog".
Virgo: Daddy if you're reading this, I asked you not to read my blogs anymore, Tequila or not...sign off now please and thank you. I love you dearly!
My Daddy's a Virgo...my real Dad, you know the 1/2 that helped produce me to life. Also, my first love is a Virgo...I don't think I want to talk about it to be honest for fear of incriminating myself with both individuals. I bet your ass couldn't wait to read this one..hahaha...I will hold my tongue on this one. I will say they are excellent cooks, intuitive, intelligent, confident and sensitive. Hey, I still need that cheese bisquit recipe.
If you want to know quickly if you are compatible with your mate, here is a rule that I give all of my friends and associates. Take the month you were born and count four months ahead..example if you were born in June, then four months after June will land you in the month of October. If you were born in January, you will more than likely be compatible with someone that is born in the month of May.
PSSST...
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